To
one person it could be getting promoted to a particular position within
the company they’ve worked at for years. To another, it could have
nothing to do with a traditional job path, and instead be about building
a life that allows them the freedom and time to do the things they love
regularly.
No
matter how you currently define your potential, chances are that you
often criticize yourself for not closing the gap between present day you
and your ‘ideal’ state sooner.
In
hopes of breaking that unnecessary self-criticism, I’ve put together a
list of seven unusual signs that you’re reaching your true potential, in
both video and written form.
See
how many of these you currently exemplify, and choose to give yourself
some credit for the incredible progress that you are making.
1. You’ve Stopped Giving a S**t About What Others Think
In
my opinion, one of the biggest obstacles to someone reaching their
potential is being overly preoccupied with what others think of them.
Whether your goals are common or farfetched, you need to be able to
pursue them in whatever way you deem most effective for you, rather than
in a manner that you believe will be most socially acceptable.
I’m
not suggesting that we all act recklessly when making decisions, with
no consideration for how they could impact others, but rather, that we
stop limiting our approach based on what others are going to think of
it. The more often you are true to yourself and your needs, the closer
you’ll be to attaining whatever your potential entails.
2. You Dictate Your Bedtime
This
may sound silly, but you’d be amazed by how many of us (even those well
into adulthood) continue to rob ourselves of our beauty rest. I know
that the demands of work can make controlling your bedtime difficult,
but nothing makes a long work day harder than ignoring your body’s
desire for rest — and not taking advantage of the times it works best.
Those
on the cusp of reaching their potential will happily either go to bed
early or stay up late based on what they know works best for them,
without any care for what others might think of their decision.
Helpful Hint: Find
it difficult to fall asleep early? Try cutting yourself off from tech
like your laptop and phone 1-2 hours before your desired bedtime.
3. You Spend Money on You, Not What Others Expect You To
Let
me immediately clarify that I am not suggesting that reaching your
potential involves spending selfishly. What I am arguing is that you
should choose to allocate your resources in ways that benefit you and
your long-term goals, rather than in ways that others may expect.
Just
because “most people” your age own a car or go out for dinner several
nights per week, doesn’t mean that you necessarily have to as well. If
those things are important to you, awesome, but if not, a big sign
you’re reaching your potential is your ability to differentiate between
what does and doesn’t matter to you and act accordingly.
4. You’re Grateful for Your Past
We’ve
all been through our fair share of hardship in life, and while many of
us would love to have avoided much of that pain, we also know that we
cannot change the past. A key sign you’re reaching your potential is the
way you choose to look back upon your life story thus far.
Do
you regularly dwell upon your past, basking in the victimhood, pain, or
sadness that came along with it? Or do you accept it for what it was,
and instead focus on appreciating and applying what you learned about
yourself, others, and how to handle particular circumstances from it?
5. You’re Okay With Being Wrong
No
matter how spiritually, emotionally, and intellectually intelligent you
believe yourself to be, we are all wrong from time to time in this
life. And, in my opinion, one of the most obvious indications that
you’re reaching your potential is your acceptance of that reality.
The
more you admit to your shortcomings and are willing to learn from
others, rather than wasting your time pointing the blame elsewhere, the
more likely you are to expedite your path to success.
6. You Happily Compliment Others
How
do you view other people’s accomplishments? Does seeing someone succeed
at something that you deem admirable inspire you to pursue your own
goals, or does it fill you with jealousy?
Feeling
jealous has never done anyone any good, yet we seem to love casually
stating it (“I’m so jealous”) as if it does. You genuinely being happy
for, rather than jealous of, others people will save you a ton of time
and mental energy that you can instead direct toward your own projects.
7. Patience Is Not a Problem
We
all know what it feels like to be impatient. And while we might wish
that life never required us to be patient, we also know that will never
be the case. Pretty well every big accomplishment in life that you deem
admirable took time to develop into what it is today.
Another
sign you’re reaching your potential is that you not only recognize the
necessity of patience, but choose to practice it regularly — even when
losing your cool would be more satisfying.
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